We are
living in a world of stress, especially in this world of technology, which has
created a compulsive mind that brings in all the stress factors.
There
are many factors that may directly or indirectly cause stress in everyday human
existence, and they are as follows:
Emotional
Factors
Anger,
bitterness, disappointment, and envy are some of the human emotions that often
lead to anxiety, distress, and even depression.
Environmental
and Eventful Factors
A dangerous
environment, such as walking alone in the dark or in an unsafe neighborhood,
can be stressful.
A work
environment with racial discrimination or sexual harassment can be stressful too.
According to the American Institute of Stress, up to one million employees’
absence per day are stress related. In addition, work environment may create
stress due to feeling unproductive, inability to concentrate on work,
unrealistic and unreasonable demands from employers or co-workers.
Stressful
life events may also lead to elevated stress levels. Special life
events—whether they are positive or negative—can be stressful, such as getting
married or planning a wedding, graduation, starting a new job, buying a home,
or even going on a vacation.
Financial
Factors
Finance
is one of the main stress factors in contemporary life and living due to
rampant unemployment, not having enough money to make both ends meet, debt from
credit cards or reckless over-spending, bankruptcy, and home foreclosure,
among other financial problems.
Health
Factors
The American Academy of Family Physicians once
estimated that two-thirds of all family doctor visits are stress related.
Health
problems can be triggered by alcohol, sugar, and tobacco addiction. Chronic
health problems, such as autoimmune diseases, cancers and heart-related
health issues, are particularly stressful after diagnoses and during
treatments..
Relationship
Factors
Relationships
are often a source of emotional and psychological problems, such as break-up in
a love relationship, separation and divorce, dealing with teenager problems,
and coping with aging parents.
William
Shakespeare once said: “There is nothing either good
or bad, but thinking makes it so.” John Milton, the famous English poet,
also had this to say: “The mind is its own place, and in itself can make Heaven
of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.” Both spoke volumes of the perceptions of
stress.
The
bottom line: stress comes from your mind, or, more specifically, your ego-self.
Therefore, no ego, no stress!
NO EGO NO STRESS is a 134-page book by Stephen Lau on ancient
human wisdom for stress relief. Specifically, it is about Tao wisdom, which
originates from the ancient Chinese sage Lao Tzu, the author of “Tao Te Ching”—one of the most translated
works in world literature. “Tao Te Ching” is popular due to its profound and
unconventional wisdom, which is both intriguing and controversial. Learn how to let go of the ego-self to remove all the stressors
in modern living due to finance, careers, relationships, etc. and live as if everything is a miracle.
Understanding
TAO wisdom may open the doorway to letting go of the ego to let go of stress.
Stephen Lau
Copyright© by Stephen Lau
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